Our new home

We have now lived in Brooksby Village for 4 weeks and a few days. Pretty well settled in,  but still more things to organize and a few more from the old place to bring up.  Also still need to run wires to other speakers for surround sound and hang pictures.  Our apartment is good sized - with lots of closet space - which  is needed.  The view out our windows are nice — some of them just facing the nearby woods.  The  walls are painted white (our choice) and flooring  is wood-grainy-veneer  — except for the kitchen, sun room (an extension to the living room with lots of windows), and bathrooms which are white pseudo-tile. We have few rugs in various places.   Robert's piano, a 7 ft Steinway B grand, just fit into the elevator (the movers were skeptical — but we did a lot of measuring).

Dishwasher, garbage disposal, electric stove, ice maker in the fridge - all things that we've never had.

There are a few different eating places - food is good, but not spectacular.  When you go to a restaurant they  often ask if you want to sit at a table with other people and we do. The standard package has 1 meal a day - but we are switching to the 20 meals a month plan - and we won't use them all.

There is a fitness center - a short walk from our place in a connected building - not quite as elaborate as the ones I've paid to go to, but fine. Its impressive to see some people who are not in good physical shape using the fitness center.

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Scotland trip

We just completed (actually wednesday) a splendid 2-week trip to Scotland. It was a Road Scholar trip "The Best of Scotland". Our second trip with them (used to be called elder hostel) and there will be more with them. There were 24 of us - an excellent leader, DaveCrowe, and local guide: Alisdaire MacDonald.

We started in Glasgow and ended in Edinburgh - travelling by coach for local trips and to change hotels. For more than half of the trip we had the same coach and driver: Wee Stevie, he was called. Tius was my first trip to Scotland, Robert had been before several times many years ago to the Edinburgh Festival.

Fascinating country: beautiful scenery, lakes, mountains, museums, castles.

Inveraray Castle

We did reallly well for good weather - it was better than the forecasts - only twice when we were walking around did we really need raincoats and once an umbrella.

Cambridge Organizational Involvement

I have lived in Cambridge in my house since 1966 + 4 years in Baker House while a student at MIT in 1956-1960. From 1967-1986 I worked in a ~40 person Cambridge office of a computer company working on Multics, a very advanced computer sysem for the times – for the last several years I was the manager.

I have been involved as a volunteer in many organizations – often as a board member, and sometime as treasurer. Most of them are Cambridge oriented and have worked to make the city a better place. It has been interesting and fun as well. Some of them are LGBTQ oriented. As an out-gay person I have had the pleasure of helping make life better for LGBTQ people.

Partly because we are moving out of Cambridge to Brooksby Village, a retirement Community in Peabody Mass, and because I had enough of this I am no longer doing any of this.

Cambridge Political organizations

Cambridge Civic Association – CCA
CCA was formed in 1945 as part of the effort to change the city government to the current strong City Manager, system. It characterized itself as a good-government organization and focused on working with City Councilors, the Mayor, and other parts of the city government, It also endorsed a slate of candidates and helped support the election. I joined in the ‘70s and stayed until it ended in the late ‘80s. I was a board member and the treasurer for most of the time.

Cambridge Lavender Alliance – CLA
CLA was formed in the ‘70s and as a LGBTQ organization and worked to make the public and the government deal with issues faced by LGBTQ people. It endorsed a slate of candidates for school committee and Council. Some of us worked with other people in the city and helped form the LGBTQ+ Commission. I was a board member and treasurer. After the Commission formed it ended.

Cambridge City Government organizations

Cambridge LGBTQ+ Commission
I have been part of this organization since it was formed in 2004 and been co-chair most of the time – retired in April 2022. Commissioners are appointed by the City Manager. We work with organizations in the government – particularly police and health care and have worked with housing and healthcare organizations in the city to help them improve policies and practices with respect to LGBTQ people.

Technical Advisory Committee to the Election Commission
This group was formed to help the Election Commission switch from the time consuming hand count of Council and School Committee preferential ballots to electronic. The hand count took about a week and it was fun to hang around and chat with people who were observing, it. We studied other systems and made a recommendation which was accepted and implemented.

Library 21 Committee
This committee was formed when the City Council rejected a bad plan to extend the main library that messed up the park next to the library among other issues. The committee had city government employees, volunteers, and outside library experts to figure out the program of the expanded library. It was very interesting – we did a lot of research – among other things looking at other library expansions - I as well as some others did a lot of this and visited other libraries when I was traveling and went to a library conference. The plan was well received and got the OK.

Library Design Advisory Committee
This was formed to work with the architects on the details of the design. Again an example of city employees, resident volunteers and library experts working together. The resulting library expansion is wonderful and has been well received.

Silver Ribbon Commission
This was formed by the city to investigate various issues of aging in place and produced a good report. Unfortunately little was done about its recommendations. Another example of resident volunteers working with city employees.

Envision Cambridge – Mobility Group
Envison Cambridge was a set of working groups that looked at possible futures for the city. The Mobility subgroup was dealing with transportation and just getting around. I was a member of this. Most of the recommendations were ignored.


Cambridge Postal Advisory Committee
We met with the Cambridge Post Office management a few times a year to look at policies and practices and make recommendations for improvement. We got a prize from the US Postal Service one year for our work. It lasted for a few years but after several changes in the local Postmaster it died out.

Memorial Day

Today is Memorial  day, Of course I am young enough to remember when it was called Decoration Day.

You have to give a lot of credit to those who did military service in  the many wars we have been in and sadly too many lost their lives.   My personal experience was a year of so in Army ROTC at MIT.  When I went there it was required for freshmen and sophomores to take ROTC  - since MIT was a land-grant univesity. Classes included military history and learning about weapons.  I did learn how to clean an M1 rifle and got to fire one once at the MIT rifle range. We had to dress properly and make sure our shoes were shined and the brass buttons were clean and shiny.

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Sometime in my sophomore year I heard that you get excused if you had flat feet.  So I went to the MIT infirmary but the doctor said I didn't have flat feet,  but my eyesight which required glasses would get me my deferment. When I left grad school in 1962 and got a real job I had to worry about being drafted and this was Vietnam war days.  The company I went to work for, Honeywell Computers, was considered a critical industry I got a deferment.

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Incarceration in the US

The US has the highest incarceration rate of any country. 639 per 100,000 people or a bit more than 2 million people. For comparison Canada's rate is 107.

It is interesting to think about why people are incarcerated.

- In simple terms: it is punishment for the crime that was committed

- Make the victims feel better - the victims suffer from the crime, make the criminal suffer. an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. Surveys of victims show that a majority of them would prefer if the money were spent on rehabilitation of the prisoners.

- Prevention from committing another crime while incarcerated

- Setting an example of what happens when you commit a crime to deter other people from committing similar crimes

- In some states prisons are called Houses of Correction. The idea is to retrain and motivate prisoners to not commit crimes after they are let out. Well, that really works well: prisoners are in crowded conditions among many other people who have committed crimes - that is a bad environment. Not enough - if any - properly trained staff to help rehabiltate them by dealing with health problems and skill improvements is another problem.

The US crime rate is in the middle but some statistics are that about 2/3 get arrested within three years of being let out so it doesn't look there is much correction.

I think in some cases instead of treating the people as criminals where they won't talk because what they say can be used against them time should be spent with them to understand the background of why they did it and create a constructive plan for rehabilitation and working with organizations to change policies and procedures that can help avoid similar crimes.
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Guana Island 2022

We returned from our trip to Guana Island, a private island resort in the British Virgin Islands. Our first trip there was in 1983 - we think this was our 25th. There are at most 35 guests - it is a large island with many beaches, hills, and small mountains. All the rooms are different - usually in a building with one or two others - and extra hill walking.

We usually go at the same time and encounter other people who have been there at the same time before. It is quite social - dining is at tables with 6-8 people although you can eat privately if you want - we didn't. And there is cocktail hour - no charges for liquor and you mix your own. The food is excellent - I gained a few pounds in 7 days....We did lots of walking. The dining facilities and rooms are up a hill and we walk up and down to the beach and other several places a few time a day. (they will drive you, but we choose to walk).

The owner is very supportive of preservation. There is a salt pond near the main beach and a flock of flamingos lives there. We always count them when we get a good view - there were 21. In the fall they have scientists' month and a bunch of them come down and study things and do work.

Many years ago they introduced a few Rock Iguanas (an almost extinct species) and they are thriving - we saw quite a few of them at various times.

There is a croquet field - it wasn't in good shape - missing stakes and some wickets when we got there. We found some stakes, but no wickets so I fashioned some out of colored straws which worked pretty well. I beat Robert each time - once he was ahead and then suddenly it started to rain and there was wind so we ran for cover. When we reutrned to the field the wind and blown the balls around we had to start over. When I was a kid we had croquet in our yard in our summer house on the Jersey Shore and I played a lot.

There used to be lots of pelicans - we saw one.


Martin Luther King Day

Today is Martin Luther King day.

A very incredible person who was a constructive activist in the civil rights movement in the
50s and '60s until he was assassinated in 1968.

Wikipedia article

He was in prison a number of times as a result of his work.

This picture was taken shortly after King, Ira Blalock (on the left), Gordon Gibson (on the right), and some others were released from the Salem jail in 1965. As it turns out I knew Ira Blalock because he was the minister in a UU church in Wellesley that I went to for a while with a bunch of friends. And Gordon Gibson was a minister in another Boston area church who performed my first marriage in 1966 (in the MIT chapel). -- and yes, I have posted this before.

Where we slept and danced in 2021

We slept:
—  at home in Gloucester and Cambridge
— 2 nights in Springhill Suites hotel in Columbus attending Dean and Tim's wedding
— 3 nights in Robert's brother's house in Philadelphia

We danced:
— at several virtual Contra dances in the kitchen in Gloucester and the living room in Cambridge
— at a English Country Dance in Harvard Square
— at a Contra Dance in Worcester

2020 was better — we were on a Road Scholar's trip to southern Africa  in January and Guana Island in the BVI in Feb/March. 12 Contra dances, 5 English Country dances. Last live dance was on March 5th.

Hopefully 2022 will be better.


Listening to music on Christmas day

Our new tradition is to listen to some of our records and CDs instead of WQXR or WCRB — classical music stations - that play too much Christmas stuff. The first 4 in this list were CDs, the rest were records.  A couple of them are not in good shape  even after cleaning.

     A pretty wide range of music types

Boston Cecilia: Brahms   (Robert was a member of this group)
Frost and Fire: Midwinter Spring  (Contra dance music with friends on the group)
William Byrd:  Cantions Sacrae
Mozart: Viola quintets  - Guarneri Quartet
Blanco y Negro: Hispanic songs of the Renaissance
Josquin des Pres: Missa L'homme Arme
The Scholars: Golden Age of English Sacred Music
Beatles: Rubber Soul
Bob Dylan: John Wesley Harding
Robert Shaw Chorale: Festival of Carols -incl. Ceremony of Carols
Crosby, Stills, and Nash: 4way Street
Trio Live Oak: Don Alfonso the Wise (music of mediaeval Spain)
Early American Christmas Music
Wonderful Town
Johannes Ockeghem: Missa Prolatenum
Schubert: String Quintet in C major
Voice of the Turtle: A Coat of Many Colors (Sephardic music)
The Legendary Son House
The Quadrivium: Long Time Ago (I was a member of this group)

Voice of the Turtle and Trio Live Oak performers were all in the Quadrivium_



When I was a kid I was a Yankees fan - I lived in NYC. My father was a NY Giants fan. We occasionally listened to games on the radio and I went with my father to several games at the Polo Grounds, Ebbets Field and the original Yankee Stadium. And to several more at Yankees games with a school friend. Then I lost interest.

One summer at camp I became a Milwaukee Braves fan (was Boston Braves, now Atlanta Braves) and listened to a few games. Then I lost interest and ignored the sport.

In 1986 I remarked to Robert (rsc) "Oh the RedSox are in the World Series - let's watch some games" and we did. Little did we know what this was going to do to us. We started paying a bit of attention to games. In 1989 we went to some games in Fenway Park and continued doing this for a few years. And in 1994 we got Season's tickets (weekday games) and shared with several other people and started going to 10-15 games each year.

We watch most games on TV - and part-time on the radio during dinner or in the car.

While travelling we have gone to games in both the completely redone old Yankee Stadium and then the new Yankee Stadiums, Giant's games in Candlestick and then Oracle park, Twins in Metropolitan Park in Minneapolis, old Tiger stadium in Detroit, Mariners at Safeco field in Seattle, Phillies at Veteran's and Citizen's Park in Philadelphia, Cubs at Wrigley field in Chicago, Mets at Shea statium (me only), Athletics at Oakland Coliseum. And the RedSox triple A team in Pawtucket. I've been in Rogers Centre in Toronto (Blue Jays) not for a game but a computer conference.

So I've seen games in 17 stadiums and been in one other.

The UserPic is for the Canterbury RedSox (New Zealand - softball) - they weren't playing when we were there.