June 13th, 2010

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Steven P Dyer - RIP

Early last week Steve Dyer died. As of several days ago the cause was unknown but it probably was a heart attack. Steve affected the lives of many people over the years. He created net.motss (now soc.motss), the first USENET newsgroup for gay people to meet and converse in 1983. Called motss for members of the same sex because it was felt that if had gay and lesbian in the name many sites wouldn't carry it. He, with Brian Gollum created the Bear Mailing List in 1988. He also gave many people accounts on SPDCC, his home server, in the days when if you didn't work for a University or a few companies you couldn't get access to the Net.

I've met many of my current friends and acquaintances via soc.motss - starting as electronic friends we met face-to-face at motss cons and at parties - frequently at Steve and Tony's house in Cambridge when they lived there. Many people have recently recounted their own tales of how Steve affected them because of these electronic media and his generosity. He will really be missed.

Visiting hours at the funeral home are on SUnday from 2-6. The funeral is on Monday at 10am. See below for details. There will be a gathering for his friends at Jasper's Summer Shack in Cambridge at 6:30 on Sunday.

From the Obit in the Boston Globe:

Visiting hours in the John J. O'Connor & Son Funeral Home 740 Adams St. (near Gallivan Blvd.) DORCHESTER Sunday 2 to 6 pm. Funeral Mass in St. Brendan's Church Monday morning at 10 o'clock. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited. In lieu of flowers remembrances may be made to St. Brendan's School, 23 Rita Rd., Dorchester, MA 02124. Interment Cedar Grove Cemetery. For directions and messages of condolence, www.oconnorandson.com.