Louise had been one of the Cape Ann Singers and also had been in Boston Cecilia when it was called the Cecilia Society. Rehearsals usually took place at her wonderful house on Eastern Point. Louise was a very interesting person with strong musical, public school teaching, gardening, travel, and we learned from some of the speakers tennis interests. She was a very active member of the Gloucester Civic and Garden club (probably not the correct name) and was instrumental in getting plants, trees, and small public garden spots in many parts of Gloucester - apparently being extremely vigilant in seeing that they got installed and properly maintained.
When I go to memorial services I always think about what I would like to have. And I get kind of lost at this point so I guess I should think about this some more. I haven't been to many of them but they have always been good experiences.
Shortly before my mother died in 1997 I had discussed the topic with her. At first she didn't want anything, certainly no funeral as she had prearranged to be cremated and have her ashes scattered at sea by The Neptune Society. She didn't want anything in a synagogue and we recalled the oddity of my father's funeral in a synagogue conducted by a Rabbi that he'd never met and hadn't been in a synagogue for at least 10 years. I suggested her bridge club and she liked the idea and that is where I had it 4 months later. I'll write about this some time.